During this small talk, you and your date are looking for commonalities that you share, such as a similar sense of humor and viewpoints on a variety of issues.
You may both speak about shared references from e-mails or phone calls.
What kind of stories does she tell, and what do they say about her?
That being said, give everyone a fair share of attention, or you could be missing out on someone perfect for you.
Brush up on your knowledge of body language cues and put it into action.
A first date transforms thoughts, feelings and pieced-together information into reality, and the big question on both you and your date’s mind is, “I like this person, but will there be enough chemistry? While is perfectly normal to feel some level of nervousness before a first date—you want to keep it in check.
If you tend to be more of an anxious type, try reminding yourself that a first date is a casual getting-to-know-you session.